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THE SACRED THYME COLLECTIVE

We all matter. RIL Rob Teina 10/08/26
I’ve been thinking a lot about legacy. Not the grand shiny, carved in stone kind. The other kind. The kind that lives in people after you’re gone. I’ve been to a lot of funerals lately. The older I get the more frequent flyer miles I seem to collect. We can’t escape it so why the hekka don’t we talk about it. Why is talking about death so quickly met with~Oh stop being morbid It’s not morbid. It’s inevitable. Hell if we were a little more willing to talk about death while we’
lissawhiteman
2 days ago4 min read
The fear of ourselves 12/08/2026
My head has been a bit of a fu.king mess lately. I’ve been living in it. Properly living in it. Almost like I’ve been hovering somewhere just outside my own body while my brain runs seventeen different scenarios, conversations, possibilities and catastrophes at once. Meanwhile on the outside Im covering it with she’ll be right mate and that’s just how I roll. There is a lot that can live behind a well practised she’ll be right dont you think. I can put my hand on my heart a
lissawhiteman
2 days ago5 min read
There’s been a war brewing on my head lately
Fifteen years of being a blonde badass. Bright hair. Loud fire. Wild woman energy you could spot from across a room. Now…I’m crawling my way back to my roots. Literally. Back into the dark haired enchantress I was before the bleach before the upkeep the performance of it all. And fuck me I’ve left it way longer between hair appointments this time. Which means the silver streaks are coming through hard now. Not timid little threads either. Proper witch sparkles. Lightning bolt
lissawhiteman
May 183 min read
Beautifully and painfully human.
What is so deeply ingrained within us as women no matter how much work we think we’ve done is this underlying shadow. Call it the sisterhood wound, call it internalised misogyny, call it whatever you want… but it sits under our skin like a bruise we can’t stop hitting. Every time we think we’ve healed it, it shows up again. Same wound, different costume. This is the part that guts me, even the women doing the work, the ones who preach it, teach it, live it even we hit that s
lissawhiteman
Dec 10, 20252 min read
The Ache to Belong… and the Shadows We Drag With Us
There’s something I’ve been wrestling with. A trigger I’ve felt rising, pulsing like heat under skin. It’s… the ache of longing, of wanting to belong but not knowing where the hell to stand without overstepping. I am a Pākehā woman. I am doing the work, of decolonising not just my mind, but the energy I carry when I walk into sacred spaces. Lately I’ve been sitting with a deeper, more uncomfortable truth. That ache to belong can sometimes become a coloniser of its own. The
lissawhiteman
Oct 26, 20253 min read
Grief Has Teeth (And I Let It Bite Me)
I’ve been in a little grief bubble of late, not gonna lie. My little mate passed months ago. It feels like both a lifetime and a second ago. The days blur, and there are moments where I forget when I still go looking for the fat little snoring sausage, expecting to see him sprawled out , freight train sound of his snore echoing throughout the backyard then it hits me, like a goddamn freight train to the heart. He’s not here any more- still months later it pulls at my heart. I
lissawhiteman
Oct 26, 20253 min read
A Love Letter to the Misunderstood Mystics
Lately, I’ve been watching something that sits heavy in my heart, that a wave of people who once walked a spiritual path, who spoke of energy, intuition, and divine connection, now turning around and calling it all “evil” in their new path of finding Jesus. I’ve seen creators, coaches, and even friends who once shared messages of empowerment, healing, and magic suddenly denounce it all in the name of God, and while everyone is free to follow what feels true, it’s the need t
lissawhiteman
Oct 24, 20255 min read
~The Baby Who Grew Me~
(This is a small expert out of my book im in the midst of writing. Felt the urge to share) A conversation while at an early morning gym...
lissawhiteman
Jul 31, 20253 min read
Confronting Witchcraft Judgement: A Personal Spell for Sovereignty
There is still fear around the word Witch. Not because it means evil, but because it means power without permission . It means devotion...
lissawhiteman
Jul 28, 20253 min read
Why I Write
Do you know what I truly love about writing? It’s the way something deep within your being can pour out through your fingertips and shape...
lissawhiteman
Jul 15, 20253 min read
Let’s Not Confuse Sacred Plant Medicine with Hypnosis Tactics(A loving call out to the spiritual copy paste crowd)
The reason I’m writing so deeply about this sacred plant medicine is because, over the years, I’ve watched its popularity grow and its...
lissawhiteman
Jul 15, 20254 min read
Embodiment Isn’t a Free-for-All: Why Your ‘Feeling’ Isn’t Always Enough
There’s a rising trend out there especially in the unregulated spaces of the healing, coaching, and spiritual industries where blanket...
lissawhiteman
Jul 14, 20254 min read
🌑 Winter Solstice x Matariki 🌌
As I sit here, contemplating the sacred convergence of the Winter Solstice and Matariki, I feel something stirring. A sense of hope for...
lissawhiteman
Jul 9, 20252 min read
MY JOURNERY AS A SCRIBE
I fucking love my journey with the pen or maybe these days, it’s more like the tippity tap of the keyboard. Either way, it’s sacred. It...
lissawhiteman
Jul 8, 20253 min read
A Fierce Devotion to Earth Work, Integrity & Humility
There’s a part of me that wants to scream. And I know that scream doesn’t come from bitterness or judgement. It comes from devotion. A...
lissawhiteman
May 19, 20253 min read
Whataboutism, Triggers, and the Sacred Pause: A Call to Deeper Reflection
There’s something I’ve been witnessing a lot lately in conversations online, in circles, even within sacred communities. It’s a sneaky...
lissawhiteman
May 12, 20253 min read
4/4/25 Feisty Mode Activated
Maybe it’s my luteal phase talking. Maybe it’s the pain I’m marinating in lately. Maybe it’s the cosmic shitstorm of things not quite...
lissawhiteman
Apr 4, 20254 min read
24/3/25 LAUGHTER—IS IT THE BEST MEDICINE OR A SPELL?
Your laugh is more than just a sound it’s a spell, a weapon, a release, a call to the wild. It doesn’t just express joy; it reveals, it...
lissawhiteman
Mar 24, 20253 min read
28/02/2025 The Unravelling: A Bufo Journey
Through the sacred medicine of Bufo, I was stripped bare. No illusions, no masks, no stories to hide behind only truth. It did not ask...
lissawhiteman
Mar 4, 20252 min read
9/12/2024 You are not your darkness, but you are just not the light either
When I was younger, I was always called moody. Angry. “Dark.” I carried those words like wounds, believing they meant something was wrong...
lissawhiteman
Mar 4, 20251 min read
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